Sunday, February 27, 2011

Always Think of Fighting Back

It will make you cry.. There will be no turning back.. It's not like a switch that you can turn on and off whenever you feel the desire of doing so.. If you let it, for sure it will be something that will stay with you no matter what.. The more you dread it, the more it will haunt you. Believe in the power of gradual forgiveness. Cause even if you try letting it go, but you're still full of anger and hatred, the thing that you are loosening up your grip from will eventually catch up on you. Running away won't do you any good. It will just make things worse.. So, always think of fighting back.


 


Acceptance is the key to several doors.. These are doors that will lead you to different paths you yourself can only decide wherever you would want it to take you. Remember that you are the master of your own fate. Rather than sulk over lost cases, know that you can always find eloquent reasons to be happy. Searching for things that once made you smile is relatively easier than looking for ways on how to forget whatever it is that you're trying to forget. But first you need to humbly accept the status quo. Sure it will bring you to the verge of shedding buckets of tears, hell it will even tear you apart.. So let it but always think of fighting back.


Realization and Acceptance are brothers that when hand in hand, can do wonders to wandering people. People who consider themselves lost tend to give up and question why such experiences happen to them. Questioning is one of the advocates of the devil, Denial being the devil. When people aren't successful in looking for answers to their queries, they look for all sorts of escape doors and even try to hide themselves away from reality: blinded by sorrow and severely devastated by grief. At some point, that can be helpful. But these people should know that things will remain the same, if not, worse. When running for cover becomes their resort, the appalling feeling inside builds up magnanimously. They should instead, be vigilant: always think of fighting back.


There is no such thing as an escape hatch or a reset button in life. Welcome it and let it flow in you. Always keep in mind one of the most important mantras in life: What doesn't kill you only makes you stronger. Have the courage to face the pain. Endure. It will soon be over even before you notice it. But to some, the fear of feeling despair gets the best of them and this has tumultuous effects on people. It blinds you of the fact that there will always be something beautiful that will come your way after, well even during, your times of sadness. Human beings will never get rid of their tendency to forget the fact that faith, hope and love will never leave your side. They are just there, waiting to be called to rescue your dwindling and drowning being. Like reserve officers superbly prepared for battle if ever a sudden war breaks out , FHL will never leave you hanging. Forgetting that you have these three weapons in your armory is like betraying your own self. Don't ever let yourself be left downtrodden and incapacitated. Be vigilant: always think of fighting back.



You can always take something positive out of a forsaken event in your life. Hold on to whatever's left in you and let the remaining light bring you to your feet and guide you out of the darkness that swallowed you. Accept the reality that it's not going to be all bright and shiny all throughout. Establish safeguards for you to be better equipped when another storm comes. Never let negative vibes trample you over. Be brave and sturdy. Stay with the strategies that work and believe that you can always be better. Be vigilant: always think of fighting back.


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